Bismillah e rahman e rahim
Hadiths about Women
As-salato as-salamo alaika Ya Rasulallah Assalamu 'Alaykum wa
Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu
Reported from Hadrat Anas b. Malik Radi Allahu anhu, the Beloved Prophet
Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa 'aalihi wa Sallam said: "Girls are models
of affection and sympathy and a blessing to the family. If a person has
one daughter, God will screen him from the fire of hell owing to his
daughter; if he has two daughters, God will admit him to paradise; if he
has three, God will exempt him from the obligation of
charity and Jihad." (Kanz al-Ummal: 277).
Hadrat Abu Huraira Radi Allahu anhu says, "The Most Beloved Prophet of
God Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa 'aalihi wa Sallam said that if a
person has three daughters whom he provides for and brings up, God will
surely reward him with paradise." (Kanz al-Ummal).
According to Hadrat Abdullah ibn Mas'ud Radi Allahu anhu, the Beloved
Prophet Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa 'aalihi wa Sallam is reported to
have said; "If a daughter is born to a person and he brings her up,
gives her a good education and trains her in the arts of life, I shall
myself stand between him and hell-fire. (Kanz al-Ummal).
Hadrat Ibn Abbas Radi Allahu anhu reported that a virgin grown-up girl
came to the Prophet of Allah Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa 'aalihi wa
Sallam and narrated that her father had given her in marriage to a
person whom she disliked. The Beloved Prophet Salla Allahu ta'ala
alayhi wa 'aalihi wa Sallam gave her option. (Abu Dawud).
Khansa' b. Khidham Radi Allahu anha reported that her father gave her in
marriage, after she had became a widow. She disliked it and came to the
Prophet Salla Allahu ta'ala alayhi wa 'aalihi wa Sallam. He annulled
the marriage. (Bukhari).
According to Sayyadah Ayesha Radi Allahu ta'ala anha, the Beloved
Prophet Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa 'aalihi wa Sallam's wife, he
said about women: "They are like pleasing roses." (NOTE 37) (Kanz al-Ummal).
Man is the ruler in his home. He will be held responsible for the
conduct of his dependents, and woman is the ruler in her husband's home.
She will also be held responsible for the conduct of her dependents.
(Bukhari Shareef).
A person who has a female slave in charge and takes steps to give her a
sound education and trains her in arts and culture, and then frees her
and marries her, he will be doubly rewarded. (Sahih Bukhari, Kitab
al-Nikah).
A report from Hadrat Bahz b. Hakim Radi Allahu anhu states: I inquired
the Beloved Prophet Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa 'aalihi wa Sallam
about his teaching in respect of women. He replied: "Feed them as you
feed yourselves, clothe them as you clothe yourselves, and do not beat
or scold them." (Kanz al-Ummal).
According to a report from Hadrat Abdullah b. 'Umar Radi Allahu anhu,
the Most Beloved Prophet Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa 'aalihi wa
Sallam declared: "The whole world is a thing to be made use of and the
best thing in the world is a virtuous wife." (Muslim).
Sayyadah Ayesha Radi Allahu ta'ala anha praised the women of Ansar for
their spirit of enquiry and learning, saying, 'How praiseworthy are the
women of Ansar that their modesty does not prevent them from attempts at
learning and the acquisition of knowledge.' (Sahih Muslim Kitab al Tahrat).
Hadrat Sayyadina Umar Radi Allahu ta'ala anhu, the Second Caliph, says,
'When a person marries a woman, and the woman stipulates that she would
not be taken out of the town or city, of her residence, it is necessary
for the husband to abide by the stipulation.' (Tirmidhi p. 385).
Hadrat Sayyadina Ali Radi Allahu ta'ala anhu, the Fourth Caliph, say:
'The conditions laid down by God take precedence over the conditions set
by man.' (Ahmad).
A report from Hadrat Ibn Abbas Radi Allahu anhu states that the Beloved
Prophet Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa 'aalihi wa Sallam said: 'A
previously married woman is more a guardian for herself than her
guardian and a virgin should be asked permission about herself, and her
permission is her silence.' (Muslim).
Hadrat Abu Huraira Radi Allahu anhu reports that the Beloved Prophet
Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa 'aalihi wa Sallam said: 'A grown-up girl
shall be asked permission about herself. If she is silent, it is her
permission; and if she declines, there shall be no compulsion on her.'
(Muslim).
Hadrat Ibn Abass Radi Allahu anhu reported that the Beloved Prophet
Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa 'aalihi wa Sallam declared: 'Those women
are adulteresses who marry themselves without the presence of
witnesses.' (Tirmidhi).
Hadrat Ibn Umar Radi Allahu anhu says: 'Uthman b. Mazu'um left behind a
young daughter. My uncle, Qudamah, married her to me, and did not even
consult her. When the girl came to know this, she disliked this marriage
and she wished to marry Mughirah b. Shu'bah. So she was married to
Mughirah. (Ibn Majah).
Sayyadah Ayesha Radi Allahu ta'ala anha, says, 'A girl came and stated
that her father had given her in marriage to his nephew and she disliked
him. I told her to wait till the Most Beloved Prophet Salla Allahu
ta'ala 'alayhi wa 'aalihi wa Sallam arrived. When the Beloved Prophet
Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa 'aalihi wa Sallam came, I told him the
full story of the girl. He at once sent for the father of the girl and
enquired whether the facts stated were true, after which he told the
girl the she was at liberty to choose or repudiate her husband. The girl
replied that she chose to retain her marriage, and she wanted only to
know whether women had the rights in the matter.'
(Nasai).
Sayyadah Ayesha Radi Allahu ta'ala anha said, the Beloved Prophet Salla
Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa 'aalihi wa Sallam declared: 'Marriage of a
woman is invalid without there being a guardian.' (Tirmidhi Kitab al-Nikah).
Sayyadah Ayesha Radi Allahu ta'ala anha, the wife of the Beloved Prophet
Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa 'aalihi wa Sallam, reports: The Prophet
Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa 'aalihi Wa Sallam of God said: 'The
best of you is he who is best to his wife.' (Tirmidhi).
A report from Hadrat Abu Huraira Radi Allahu anhu says: 'No believer
should be angry towards his wife. If some of her qualities are
displeasing, there will be many other qualities worth appreciation.'
(Nail al-Autar).
The Angel of God advised me so many times about women that I became
convinced that it is not lawful for a man to divorce his wife, except
when she commits adultery. (Irshad al-Muhtaj, Huquq al-Azwaj).
According to a report from Hadrat Anas b Malik Radi Allahu anhu, the
Most Beloved Prophet Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa 'aalihi wa Sallam
said: 'Girls are models of affection and sympathy and a blessing to the
family. If a person has one daughter, God will screen him from the fire
of hell owing to his daughter; if he has two daughters, God will admit
him to
Paradise; if he has three, God will exempt him from the obligations of
charity and Jihad. (Kanz al-Ummal).
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